
Many people find practicing the lessons of ACIM difficult and say:
âTrue⌠but also difficult.â
And yes⌠thatâs it. Thatâs where we all quietly meet, because if we are honest, the ideas and lessons of A Course in Miracles are not difficult to understandâŚâŚthey are difficult to LIVE.
We can read:
âNothing I see means anythingâ
âI am not a body.â
âI have only one problem.â
âI choose to see differently.â And so onâŚâŚ
And something in us says: Yes..beautiful..true! And then five minutes later someone says something annoyingâŚand itâs all gone ![]()
So what is this âdifficultyâ? Itâs not that the truth is hard. Itâs that we are used to something else. Very used to it.
The mind has practiced separation for a long time. It has become automatic.
Like riding a bike⌠but in the wrong direction.
And now suddenly we are asked to do something completely different:
not to fix the worldâŚbut to question the way we see it.
That feels unfamiliar. And what is unfamiliar often feelsâŚyes..difficult.
But here comes the twist: What if it is not difficult⌠but just unpracticed?
Think of something simple: The first time you drove a carâŚit felt like a
lot: Clutch, mirrors, traffic, signals⌠everything at once.
Now you drive and donât even think about it. Not because driving became easier, but because you became familiar with it.
Itâs the same with the lessons ⌠we are not learning something complex,
we are learning something new. Or even more preciseâŚwe are unlearning something very old.
So how do we make it easier? By trying harder?? Thatâs the egoâs strategy. InsteadâŚby becoming gentler with ourselves:
1. Stop trying to âdo it perfectlyâ.
The Course is not asking us to be a perfect student. It is asking us to notice. Thatâs all.
You get upset?âŚ..GoodâŚnow you can see it!
You forgot the lesson?âŚ..PerfectâŚnow you remember again.
Nothing went wrong. We are simply becoming aware.
2. Make it small.
The ego loves big spiritual goals: âI must always be peaceful.â
âI must see only love.â âI must apply this all day.â
Exhausting ![]()
Instead, try this: stop for momentâŚtake one pause.
In this way you create one second of space for a different thought.
You donât need a perfect dayâŚjust one honest second of willingness.
3. Use real-life moments (not ideal ones).
The practice is not in meditation alone. Itâs right here:
When someone interrupts youâŚWhen you feel irritationâŚWhen you worry about something small or big.
say to yourself: Ah⌠this is that same old idea again.
Thatâs the doorway. Not laterâŚnow.
Nothing to fix. Just recognition.
4. Allow the shift, donât force it.
The Course does not ask us to change our feelings. It asks us to bring them to another Teacher.
Thatâs very different. We donât push fear away. We donât pretend to be peaceful. We simply say, quietly: âI am willing to see this differently.â
And then we wait. Even a tiny softening is enough.
5. Keep the humor.
This may be the most underrated part.
If everything becomes seriousâŚit becomes heavy, but when we start to recognize the pattern, something funny appears: â OhâŚlook at me, solving the same problem again in a new outfit.â ![]()
Not judging. Just smiling. And that smile already loosens the grip.
So yes⌠It feels difficult sometimes.
Not because truth is far away, but because we are still used to listening to something else. And that is okay.
We donât need to become a perfect student of the Course. We donât need to âget it right.â We only need a little willingness⌠againâŚand againâŚand again.
And maybe this is the most comforting part: we are not the one doing the correction. We are the one allowing it.
So the next time you think: This is difficultâŚyou might gently smile and say:
âNoâŚthis is just new for me.â
And new thingsâŚbecome naturally, surprisingly fast.
With love and light,
G.