By Gonny 
Let’s talk about kindness. Not the forced, “I’ll be nice because I have to” kind, but the effortless, “I see your light, and I honor it” kind.
A Course in Miracles doesn’t often use the word kindness, but make no mistake—it’s woven into every lesson, every miracle, and every moment of true forgiveness. Yet, in some (even spiritual) circles kindness is sometimes overlooked, or even treated as secondary to the ‘real’ work of awakening.
One of ACIM’s most beautiful messages is that love is the only reality. And what is kindness, if not love in action?
Lesson 67 reminds us : “ Love created me like itself.”
Which means kindness isn’t just a nice thing to do, it’s who we are. If Love created us in Its likeness, then being kind is simply allowing our true nature to shine through.
And yet, sometimes we encounter situations where kindness is not fully understood. Have you ever been in a spiritual group where people say, “I love you”, but then vanish when you step away? Or where simple caring gestures, like asking “How are you?”, are met with suspicion rather than warmth?
True kindness doesn’t end when someone is no longer present. It’s not just a social nicety—it’s a state of being. If love is real, then it remains, even beyond words or appearances.
True forgiveness, as ACIM describes, is not just about letting things go, it’s about seeing beyond illusions to the truth. And kindness is what makes that truth visible.
In The Manual for Teachers, ACIM says: “ Gentleness always accompanies true strength, and they go together perfectly.”
Of course, kindness doesn’t mean being a doormat. A common mistake is confusing kindness with people-pleasing. ACIM never tells us to suppress our own needs just to keep others happy. Real kindness doesn’t come from fear, obligation, or a need for approval. It comes from peace. It honors both you and the other.
For example, if a friend asks for help moving, and you genuinely can’t, kindness doesn’t mean forcing yourself to say yes. It might mean saying:
“I’d love to help, but I can’t today. How about I bring snacks for everyone instead?”
Kindness doesn’t require sacrificing yourself—it requires showing up authentically.
When we stop resisting Love, kindness becomes second nature. It isn’t something we force—it’s something we allow. Like breathing. Like laughter. Like miracles.
And if you ever find yourself wondering, “Should I be kind in this situation?” just remember: It’s never the wrong choice. Because in the end, kindness is not just something we do—it’s what we are.
With love and light,
G.
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