By Gonny 
In a world where images of femininity are increasingly shaped by superficial ideals and outer strength, the essence of what it truly means to be a woman seems sometimes lost. Our modern culture often measures a woman by her ability to match the roles of men, to conform her appearance to the latest trends, and even to hide her femininity. But is this genuine strength? And in pursuing these ideals, aren’t we losing something precious?
Being a woman isn’t something to fit into a mold or ideology. It is a unique expression of power and beauty, with its own rhythm and meaning. We don’t need to compete with men, nor do we need to prove ourselves by sacrificing ourselves to modern images of success. On the contrary, true strength lies in embracing the qualities that naturally belong to women—qualities that make us powerful without the need to twist or suppress them.
Motherhood, caregiving, and the gentle power of empathy are not weaknesses or limitations, but rather natural qualities that contribute fundamentally to the well-being of society. As women, we have the capacity to nurture and connect, to create and support a home with care and love. This isn’t subservience or self-sacrifice; it is a form of strength that comes from love and inner wisdom. When we embrace these qualities, we contribute to a world built on compassion and understanding rather than conflict and competition.
It’s unfortunate that our society sometimes undervalues these qualities. The idea that a girl is only considered valuable if she takes on a ‘tough’ role in society fails to honor the richness of what femininity can truly be. Denying these natural qualities in pursuit of equality in every possible way can weaken the deep fulfillment these qualities offer.
The strength is not found in outer roles or appearances but in remaining true to our inner Self. We are free when we are guided not by the world’s expectations but by our own inner compass. True strength doesn’t mean we must prove we “can do everything men can”; it means following our own path, at peace with who we are, without needing to present ourselves differently.
Feminine strength is not an imitation of masculinity, nor is it a form of submission to traditional roles. It is a balance between softness and resolve, between giving and receiving. It is knowing when to act and when to let go, when to nurture and when to create space. Femininity is not a weakness to be masked, but a unique and authentic expression of love and compassion that invites us to be free to be who we truly are. Equaly doesn’t mean we must be identical, but rather that we recognize each other as unique and valuable, just as we are. Men and women don’t need to fulfill the same roles to be equal; they can complement each other by staying true to their natural qualities. When we allow ourselves and others to be who they are, a deeper form of equality arises—one based on respect and appreciation, not on chasing superficial images or outer forms.
Let us, therefore, return to the essence of femininity—to a place where we can fully accept and love ourselves. A place where we find strength in our gentleness, in our loving attention, and in our ability to connect. For a woman doesn’t need to choose between being powerful or feminine; she is both, and that is the true strength of the feminine.